The Seductive Addictiveness of Blame

Blame is incredibly addictive.
We’ve all done it. We’ve blamed the government, we’ve blamed the economy, we’ve blamed the weather. We’ve blamed our family, our parents, our ex lovers, the world. We’ve blamed a rock we’ve tripped over.

But when we do this we start to feel like a victim. We feel a little self-righteous. We feel innocent. We feel like its happening to us from the outside, and we’re not involved.

However, when you do this, what it actually does do is it blocks the energetic centre below the navel, which is your power centre. It means that yes you will become more of a victim, and you will have less power and less say in your life.

Instead of doing that, there is another way because when we try and blame, you cannot.  You’re asking everybody else and everything else to change around you to suit you, and it won’t ever work. They can’t. They’re on their own journey, their own path.

So, another way is look at it through different eyes. That you are actually involved in everything that happens in your life, and take responsibility for it.

It might be a bit more scary, but it will also be incredibly empowering, energising and everything can start really taking off in your life.

Maybe your ex lover left you and you blamed them for not being able to trust in a relationship again, but it might have been time. That relationship might have been due to end and they were just the one that had the courage to leave it at the time.

The government and the economy, and difficult challenging situations in our work and in our living environment, they can be there because there is something for us to learn and there’s something for us to gain. Maybe we’ll find a new niche or some opportunity when we explore it.

When we have an accident and it seems like its coming out of left field and somebody runs into us, it can be that it’s a wake up call from the outside and that the part of us that gets hurt, if it does, any part of us, that can be because that part of us was already weak. The meridians weren’t flowing energy through there, therefore it was more vulnerable, and you need to start taking care of that part of your body and strengthen it.

There are many, many sides to what creates everything but if you start to look beyond, and you look at your involvement, without blaming yourself or getting heavy on yourself, just go, OK, so I’m involved in this and there are no innocent victims.

Then everything can change. Everything can free up and then you can feel like you’re sitting on the edge of the world with incredible potential, like where I am today, on the southern most tip of England, Lizard Point in Cornwall, where there are infinite possibilities in the open ocean behind me.

If you try doing this and you find it’s difficult on your own, that energetic centre may have got more blocked and you’re having trouble with it, come along and see me, and in a session or two I can help clear and open that, and you can step out of any old patterns of blame and feeling like a victim, into your own strength and into your own true potential.

Have an amazing day!

Cheers

Cassandra Punita

P.S. Apologies for the wind on the mic! Only realised how loud it was once I had left the cliff top, and had no chance to re-film it, so please read the transcript for any bits you cant hear well. Hope you enjoy it anyway, the location was amazing!